From the Principal
In 2008 the then Principal of the College, John Woodhouse, introduced the Covenant Eyes software as a way of caring for each other in the face of the scourge of internet pornography and the serious and sustained damages it causes to people, marriages and ministries. It has become quite simply ‘what we do around here’ to help those struggling in this area and to make it more difficult for any of us to fall into this very real danger.
John Woodhouse very helpfully outlined the problem when he launched the program in 2008. The following four things are at least widely acknowledged to be true.
First, pornography does hurt people. It does harm. It hurts the person concerned — and especially the Christian person, I believe. It messes with your mind in serious ways. It affects your attitudes to something that is in fact good and wonderful, namely your sexuality. It can also harm relationship. It can do serious harm to marriage relationships. It is true that problems with pornography can be a symptom of other difficulties a person or a relationship has. But it can also cause difficulties. Pornography does hurt people.
Second, pornography is powerful. It can capture, and it can create a serious addiction. An almost seemingly innocent curiosity can become a distressing obsession. And it is very easy to get caught up in it. Then beyond its attractive and addictive power is the power of the shame that it causes, and again this is particularly so in a Christian person. The shame is very strong and causes further problems. The shame is a big part of the power of pornography. A normally honest person finds that he lies. The tangle that life can become can be very distressing, and it can be difficult to unravel — you find it hard to know where to start. Pornography is powerful.
Third, the shame means that a person who has been or is suffering from pornography — and although that is a strange way of putting it, I think it is a helpful way to put it as I will explain in my fourth point — a person who has been or is suffering from pornography can find it difficult to seek help — indeed difficult to do anything that might suggest to anyone that he has a problem in this area. It can be a desperately lonely problem to have — although many will testify that the act of seeking help was the most liberating thing they have ever done.
My fourth point is very important, and in my opinion needs to be clearly said and heard. I do not want to take away the real responsibility we all have for our own actions, but I do want to say that the ‘bad guys’ in this whole matter are the purveyors of this material. In a very real and important sense those who get caught by it are victims of exploitation. Again, we really are responsible for our own actions, and should accept responsibility, but the purveyors of pornographic material are just like drug pushers — and are doing something just as wicked. They have a product that hurts people — and they try to get people hurt by it — preferably addicted to being hurt by it — for their own perverse gain. I want to say to any who have in any way or another been caught by this stuff: we as a community want to care for you, help you and protect you from the ‘bad guys’. We do not want to do anything that will make you feel that we are out to catch you or condemn you. That, in my opinion, is not the response this problem needs.
What can we do to protect ourselves and each other from evil people who would harm us in this way? The idea is that we confiscate — as best we can — a critical aspect of the power that the purveyors of pornography have gained since the arrival of the internet, the power of secrecy. We want to take a step that will mean the pusher can no longer make you think that you can secretly respond to his stuff. That simple step, according to much of the research in this area, makes the presence of pornography on the internet considerably less powerful.’
Covenant Eyes is not the only software package available to assist with this problem, but careful investigation of the options identified it as one of the best and it is the one we have adopted here at Moore College. It is not the ultimate solution to the problem. Very often this issue is intertwined with others and they need to be dealt with as well. It is most emphatically not a policing action but an attempt to provide genuine and effective pastoral care in a critical area of concern.
Why am I asking you to be involved?
If you are one of the people who has struggled with internet pornography, I doubt that you will need persuading that this is a good thing for us to be doing. I encourage you to take this opportunity to be strengthened and protected, perhaps decisively. It may be wise for you to seek more help than this, but this may well play a large part in putting this struggle behind you. Others certainly testify to finding it so.
If you are a person who has never struggled in this area, may I suggest that there are two good reasons for you to be involved nonetheless.
First, it would be naïve to assume that temptation will never touch you here.
Second, out of love for others, so that it is that much easier for a struggling brother or sister to receive this help. This program will work best when all of us are involved.
I do not think it is too much to say that if we work together at this there may well be marriages and ministries saved. I hope that you will act as soon as possible.
I hope that we will face the menace of internet pornography, talk honestly about it (without, of course, breaching any confidentiality) so that we can learn from one another, looking not only to our own interests, but also to the interests of others.
Involvement in Covenant Eyes is voluntary. No one will be checking who has and who has not joined up. But this is one of the ways we care for each other around here and your participation will be very important.
How do I join?
Step 1: Ask one or two people to be your Accountability Partners.
Step 2: Complete the Online Application Form located at http://my.moore.edu.au/ (in the Information menu). Fill this form in online and then press the Save button which is located at the bottom of the form.
Step 3: Within a week, your details will be sent to Covenant Eyes for your account to be created.
Step 4: Within another week, your account will be created and you will receive a confirmation from Covenant Eyes. This confirmation will give you details about how to download and install the software. Your Accountability Partner(s) will also be sent an email asking them to agree to become your partner.
Step 5: If there are any issues with the software, then contact the Covenant Eyes help desk. If there are any other issues, send an email to ce@moore.edu.au.
NOTE: If your Covenant Eyes account is not used for a period of one month, it may be deleted. You will then need to reapply for a new account.
Brief description of how Covenant Eyes works
Covenant Eyes is a piece of software which monitors all internet activity on the computers on which it is installed. This activity is sent to the Covenant Eyes company, which analyses the sites visited to see if any might be questionable. A weekly report is created and then sent to one or two Accountability Partners, who can keep you accountable as to your internet activity. The ranking provided is not perfect, so some quite innocent sites might be listed – this can be dealt with by discussion with your partner(s). More details about how the system works can be found in the Useful Documents below. There are versions for PC and Mac computers, and you can install it on as many computers as you use with the one account.
Useful Documents
1. Covenant Eyes Accountability Brochure
2. Covenant Eyes User Guide for New Members
3. Partner User Guide Sept 2007
4. Understanding the Accountability Report Sept (updated March 2008)
Downloading Covenant Eyes
Covenant Eyes software can be downloaded from http://www.covenanteyes.com/download/
Continue Covenant Eyes when you leave college
We would encourage you to keep using Covenant Eyes when you leave college. You will need to transfer your account from the college to a private account. The easiest way to do this is to complete this Covenant Eyes Private Account Form and send it to Jessica Green at Jessica.green@covenanteyes.com.
Feedback
We would welcome your feedback. Please send your feedback to ce@moore.edu.au.
Confidentiality Statement
The Covenant Eyes program at Moore College is managed by Paul Grimmond & the I.T. Manager. Apart from the Covenant Eyes company, these are the only two people who will see any application forms or any correspondence related to the program. No identifiable information will be given to any other person or organisation – however, statistics and feedback (with names removed) may be given to other staff or faculty.
